2013 Enterprise Stereo Upgrade Problems

[verybad]

I have a berlingo 2013 enterprise and that comes with stalk and bluetooth as standard. I wanted to add dab to my van so I went and bought a pioneer dab radio, what a nightmare this has ended being. I bought a Autoleads PC99-X87 from amazon, Now if you see this thread, I have this type of connection

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The blue bits I had to get out with pliers for the PC99-X87 to fit, the lead that im adding does not connect to any of the white pins at the bottom only the blue part pins ive taken out at the top. Not sure if this is a problem or not.

Now I got the stereo working with the PC99-X87, but things missing is the stalk no longer works and the stereo does not keep on unless the van keys are on. If I cant get this going im going to scream.

Can anyone help me here please?

Thanks From
Bill

[finny]

mines a 2009 and ive fitted a kenwood, my stereo only works with ignition on not like original, my stalk works, have you got a pioneer patch lead connected

[verybad]

No I was thinking I might need one of them